Guest Blog: Goosie Goose

Listening Post Interview #3 - Goosie Goose
Reported by Sis White

Sis:  Goosie Goose, thank you for agreeing to speak with us at the Listening Post about the upcoming Sassy Pants story! Our readers appreciate hearing from eye witnesses! Would you tell us what happened when Sassy Pants approached you and Gerald with this idea of making amends?
Goosie: Well, when the two of them found us our first reaction was to fluff and hiss! But then I thought better of it. That little pig was not worth ruffling my feathers over, so I put them down and Gerald followed suit. And then . . .

Editors Note: Goosie's response to the question was so extensive it would make another book! We encourage readers to get a copy of Sassy Pants Makes Amends and read the first hand account of what took place.

Sis: Tell us Goosie, do you think making amends is a good idea?
Goosie: Good idea? Oh, I think it is a wonderful way to repair broken relationships! Wonderful. It has more then repaired Sassy Pants friendship with Gerald. It has made it possible for Gerald to be the leader I always knew he could be, but I did not know how to help him over that rough spot! Sassy Pants amends has made it possible for Gerald to be a goose of destiny! One day Old Gander will be gone and Gerald will take his place as leader of the flock.

Sis: Sounds to me like you have had a real change of heart toward Sassy Pants!
Goosie: Yes, I have. When Sassy Pants and Little Molly came that day, all I could think was: Why in the world was a sweet little lamb like her hanging around with rebellious, rambunkous, ne'er do well trouble making pig?! But when I saw the results and realized how Gerald benefitted, I could just kiss that little pig, but geese don't seem to have lips so I won't be able to do that!

Sis: Do you think Sassy Pants will be able to hold up? I mean, she hurt a lot of animals, do you think she will be able to continue making amends to everyone she offended?
Goosie: I think Sassy Pants is one spunky little pig. I think she made up her mind that this was the right thing to do and regardless of how hard it might be, I think she will do it. I'm cheering for her, that's for sure. She is a sterling pig as far as I am concerned.

Sis: So would you recommend others try to apologize, ask forgiveness and make amends?
Goosie: Yes, that is my recommendation. And my opinion is that it's the only way for lasting repair! The only way. It goes beyond "I'm sorry" and builds trust again. It's the best way!

Editor: Our thanks to Goosie, Molly, Sassy Pants and Sis White for these candids from the barnyard!

Give Me A Break!

In the John 3:16 Marketing Network a number of the members have felt the warfare against the goal of the network to make an effort to flood the reading market with excellent, clean, Christ centered literature. Maybe we could see ourselves as one division of the Lord’s army in the process of taking the mountain of media/communications & entertainment!

There are some of us who are spiritually sensitive and burden bearing (taking on a portion of the burden) can sneak up on you. When burdens are not prayed through, or are only partially prayed through, and then left at the foot of Jesus cross, they build up—especially when we have stuff going on in our own lives to distract us! In the process of de-cluttering my living room I opened a book that a friend had given me. I found it insightful and I’d like to share.

“It’s important to realize that the level of personal pain or tension we carry affects what we do with the revelation we receive (about situations or others) and also affects the part of the revelation we focus on. When we are doing well, we find ourselves easily focusing on the heart of God for people. When we are doing poorly, it is tempting to use the same gift of sensing/feeling to figure out who will overwhelm us or is a threat to us. When this dynamic is active, we need to learn that it is not other people who are carrying more bad stuff—it is us! Get prayer, take a break, go on a retreat, let people love on you, deal with your issues, and the world will be a sunny place once again.

Restoring Peace in the Country

When you are dealing with strong personal emotions (whether you know why they are there or not), it often means you need to unhook and head off to somewhere quiet. When you are out in the middle of nowhere, you will find that your sensing/feeling system begins to quiet down and you return to a state of peace. Gradually, the different layers of burdens and spiritual weights you may be carrying begin to wash off.

·                 Away from all the tension, defilement, and warfare of the   

        city, the heaviness and tension you are carrying will often

        begin to lift off.

·                 Removed from the people you are ministering to, your gift

         of discernment will begin to unhook and you will come to a

         place of peace.

·                 As you retreat from any spiritual warfare going on around

         you that is connected to your church, family, or ministry,

         the battle will begin to dissipate.

With these things taken care of, you will find it far easier to recognize if what you are experiencing is burden bearing, your gift of discernment being stuck in the “on position,” or warfare and defilement; consequently, you will finally have the opportunity to pray through to peace. As well, you will be able to get a handle on whether your strong emotions are signaling that you just need to recharge or you need to get some prayer ministry to deal with past wounding.

We have an excellent role model in Scripture. Jesus had a personal discipline of going out to quiet places when in the midst of people and ministry.  For instance, upon hearing of John the Baptist’s death, Jesus immediately left all the people and went out to a quiet place. “When Jesus heard it, He departed from there by boat to a deserted place by Himself.” (Matt. 14:13)

The Lord was very aware of His own emotional condition, and knew how to detach Himself from others to recharge in “the quiet place.” In fact, we find Jesus instructing His disciples about this very practice: “Come aside by yourselves to a deserted place and rest a while.” (Mark 6:31)”[1]

Taking a break is a good idea! If our Lord took a break, we, for sure, need to follow His example and for the very same reasons: Unburden our souls and clear our heads, hearts and spirits so we can hear the Lord, fill up our love tanks and by sensing the heart of God get our next directives!

If you would like an in depth treatment of burden bearing, or as some say “Burden Bearing 101,” see my two books, The Mystery of Spiritual Sensitivity, ISBN 10:0-7684-2592-1, 13978-0-7684-2592-5 and Highly Sensitive, ISBN 10: 0-7684-3260-X, 13: 978-0-7684-3260-2, published by Destiny Image.

(Sorry about the bullet points! I can't seem to fix it!)

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[1]Dueck, Murray, Keepers of the Presence, Samuel’s Mantle Publications, Abbottsford, BC, Canada,  p. 154. 155, ISBN 978-0-9780174-3-9. Murray’s book is very helpful in regard to “living with the gift,” expounding on some 53 different “filling stations.”

The "Spark" challenge

Yikes, I said I would take the "Spark Challenge" from the www.HouseHonco.com and I forgot to check in to see what it was! Trisha of HouseHonco introduces a subject every Thursday that is to "spark" our thoughts and then we post our ramblings! Thursday was in response to the death of Steve Jobs. He is credited with the following quote:

"Being the richest man in the cemetery doesn’t matter to me … Going to bed at night saying we’ve done something wonderful… that’s what matters to me."

I could not agree more! You can accrue great wealth but you cannot take it with you. However, if you have done something wonderful, if you have impacted other lives in positive ways, if you have influenced people to be better, be more holy, live and love like Jesus . . . that will go with you, after you, and may even precede you! It is more a question of what you want to be rich in. Money by itself will mold or be devalued and after you are gone, it will be divided and all the "things" sold. But if you invest in people then you can be rich in lives and relationships, especially relationship with God--that's the best kind of riches. I want to arrive in Glory and have a crowd of people and angels excited that I'm there . . . I want to meet people who have been waiting for me to come so they can tell me in person how the books I wrote made their lives better and they are so grateful to God for the work I did . . . that has to be the best high ever! I want to hear those words from God, "Well done!" So I agree with Steve Jobs, doing something wonderful is what matters to me as well!

Guest Blog: Miss Molly Interview

Listening Post Interview #2 Miss Molly
Reported by: Sis White

Sis:  Hi Miss Molly. Would you be willing to talk with us about the new Sassy Pants book coming out at the end of the year?

MM:  Certainly!
Sis:  I was wondering if you could give us a little snapshot of you and Sassy Pants and how you became a team.

MM:  (Laughing) Old Clyde would be responsible for the two of us getting together. Sassy Pants and I could be called "The Odd Couple!" We were the most unlikely of all the animals on the farm to be friends! Pigs and sheep do not have anything in common. Not only that, but she and I are complete opposites--she is loud and active; I am quiet and contemplative. She loves dirt and mud; I avoid them both! Why Old Clyde chose me over anyone else is a mystery. I did not want to give Sassy Pants a second thought, much less a second chance, but amazingly, it worked. Oh, you should have seen the arched eyebrows and the strange looks when the two of us walked by!

Sis:  Any ideas as to why it did work?

MM:  I believe Old Clyde saw something in both of us that we didn't know was there. What I see in Sassy Pants is first, she is one who never gives up. Secondly, when she is convinced that something is right, she will hang in there . . . I admire her for that. When she finally understood what amends and forgiveness accomplish, she kept at it. That insensitive, disruptive, rude . . . oh, I run out of adjectives to describe her before! But she persevered and made things right with everyone she offended. Now, I am happy to say that she is one of my best friends!  I trust her.

Now for Sassy Pants, I think Old Clyde saw the sensitive heart beneath the tough exterior. The electric fence was a real shocker to Sassy Pants, but as difficult as that was, I think it was the best thing that could have happened. If no one had stopped her, I do believe her heart would have turned to stone and she would have no feeling for anyone. Amazingly, it changed her and unlocked the goodness in her heart and allowed her to become one of the most thoughtful, protective, sensitive pigs I have ever encountered. She cares. I am proud to call her "friend." Down right amazing!

Sis:  What do you think Old Clyde saw in you?
MM: Me? Well . . . I was still quite young and did not know myself nearly so well as I do now. I would say that he saw that I was one who can give second chances, and third and fourth! If you are honestly trying . . . I am with you! That's why I became the barnyard instructor. I love helping anyone who is truly trying and willing to learn. And I think he saw Sassy Pants sensitivity, that even she did not know was there. Most think of someone who is sensitive as being shy and quiet. Sassy Pants is not quiet or shy! But when it is time for her to recharge her batteries, you will find her out in the woodsy part of the pig pen or taking a quiet mud bath when no one is around. Interesting that we both recharge in the quiet, don't you think?

Sis: Miss Molly, tell me. Do you think Sassy Pants will keep at this "Amends" thing? Or will she fizzle out and quit. What she did for Gerald Gosling Goose III was impressive, but do you really think she can keep doing amends until she has repaired all her broken friendships?
MM: There is one thing you must know about Sassy Pants--she is determined! Once she makes up her mind on something, she doesn't change it! You watch. She will not quit; she will keep making amends until every last broken friendship is repaired. That's my friend!

Library Science--The Road Not Taken

Since this blog is about what life is like for me as a highly sensitive person and as an author, from time to time I will write about the writing process and feature other authors’ works. Recently I was challenged by Trisha Priebe of www.househouncho.com to set my timer for five minutes and write free flow what comes out about the road not travelled!

As I thought about the topic my mind immediately went to my very first job ever. Before I graduated from high school, Mrs. Pierson, the school librarian, approached me about becoming her secretary. I had worked in the library as a student volunteer for two years—she had plenty of time to observe me and my work! Delighted, I accepted the job! She wanted me to promise her two years, and if I fulfilled the two years she promised to go to bat for me and secure a full four year scholarship to study library science.

I fully intended to fulfill that contract. I wasn’t so sure about library science; I’d been thinking I wanted to study English and then go into teaching. I didn’t know a person could have a double major, perhaps I would have learned that, or Mrs. Pierson would have told me! Despite my intentions, my heart got in the way. I met this gorgeous guy of Italian descent. The big brown eyes and wavy black hair made my brains fall out! After one full year as secretary I quit the job and went away to school to be near my heart throb. I forgot all about library science; declared English as my major and ended up studying anthropology and languages.

If I had travelled the road not taken I may have become an author sooner—living with books may have had that effect on me. I still became an author because that was God’s plan. He simply worked with the choices I made and brought me to this destination by another route. My environment acted somewhat like a vortex, sucking me into experiences and arenas that enriched and rounded out my personality. If I had become a librarian, I would not be who I am! Would I have discovered God’s revelation about burden bearing and high spiritual sensitivity or would I have hidden in the books away from the pain in the world? I would not necessarily have developed a love for internationals or become a cultural “bridge person.” I may or may not have found that I have a unique capacity to relate to those who are different from me in culture and language. I may or may not have learned to speak God’s language and translate that into English as He assigns it to be done. I would not necessarily have met my husband (he would be someone else and our children would be different people. . .) All the places we have gone, the things we have done, the lives we have touched and the friends we have made . . .  all would be different.

Choices. Choices are always followed by consequences. The choice to take one route lops off all kinds of possibilities inherent in other options! Choices open some doors and close other doors. That is neither right nor wrong; it is reality. The choice we make opens up the possibilities available to that choice. And there, my timer went off and I can explore no further!

What about you, and the choices you have made? Try writing for five minutes and then ask your spirit to edit what you have written—it might be instructive to see what changes or additions your spirit makes to what your soul has written!

Guest Blog--Listening Post Interviews

Listening Post Interviews

Reported by Sis White

From the Editor:  The barnyard is in quite a stir is as the second book in the Sassy Pants series is in the publishing pipeline. Sassy Pants Makes Amends will be released around the end of the year. Everyone is hoping it will be available for Christmas gifting!

We at The Listening Post thought it would be an opportune time to interview some of the main characters in the ongoing saga! Agila, one of our barnyard reporters, was first suggested to do the interviews, but she declined, preferring to remain the eyes and ears of the barnyard. She said when it came to talking she was nothing to squawk about! What a sense of humor!  She suggested Farmer White’s daughter would be the perfect reporter since she seemed to know and get along with everyone, even grumpy old Billy Goat!

Some background on Sis: We’re calling her Sis since everyone in her family does, the only exception is that Farmer White sometimes calls her “George—his right hand man!” In the line-up of all those boys, she comes right after the biggest boy, Denny.

Interview #1—Sassy Pants              

Sis:     Hey, Sassy Pants! I’m wondering if it would be okay to just get some candid reactions to your story that’s going to be coming out this fall. Are you excited? One of our own—in a book! How cool is that?!

SP:      Well, I wouldn’t exactly say I am excited—a bit more like embarrassed!

Sis:     Embarrassed?  Why would you be embarrassed? You have really turned out well!

SP:      You said, “turned out” and that is important. That lets everyone know that I was not always the responsible barnyard resident that I am now. That time of being the barnyard bully is a time I would rather forget! So, ya, it’s embarrassing to have my past right out there in the story in black and white for the whole world to see! The only reason I consented to having my story written up was, if at all possible, I want to warn all kids to not follow my early example! That’s the only reason!

Sis:     But Sassy Pants, you have such a message for the kids these days! I am really proud of you! Tell us in your own words, what would you like the kids to get out of reading your story?

SP:      Two things from these two stories: The first is that choices have consequences—any choice you make will have a consequence. That’s the way it is. Some consequences you will like and some you won’t. So, kids, make wise choices. Think about the possible consequences. Really think about it—are those consequences something you can live with? Will you like it/them? If not, seriously think about a different choice!

The second thing:  If you mess up like I did, ask for forgiveness. I did not like the consequences of my behavior. Apologizing and asking forgiveness is hard, no doubt about it. Making amends is even harder, but the results are worth all the hard work! It was quite a process to get to the place I am today.

Sis:     So tell us Sassy Pants, just what is amends?

SP:      I think Old Clyde said it best. “Amends is a way to fix a friendship when you are the one who broke it.” He was right on. Amends is just studying the friend whose friendship you broke until you find something that is really important to him or her. Then you make that become important to you too. You try to do something that will give your friend reason to trust you again. And you keep trying until trust is there!

Sis:     Well that sounds simple enough!

SP:      Simple, yes. Easy? No. Worth it? Yes! And, now you must excuse me, I hear the grain scoop calling! Farmer White is serving his famous Pig Soup and I don’t want to miss it!

Editorial Note: This is the first interview of the main characters of the Sassy Pants series. Our thanks to Mrs. Brown for inviting The Listening Post to be her guest blogger! 

Mrs. Brown’s Note: I am happy to have The Listening Post as a guest blogger. I said in the blog intro that this blog is about exploring sensitivity. I believe that Sassy Pants' story is about sensitivity! When she was a bully she turned her sensitivity off, or tried to. She made her heart grow cold and it started turning to stone because of what she believed about what happened to her. Sassy Pants thought she had to get what she thought was hers whether or not it was! She didn’t notice or care how what she did affected others—until she was shocked out of the notion! That shock was a hard way to learn, but she learned! When we don’t understand the things that happen to us and around us we can come to believe things that aren’t true. We can come to a wrong conclusion. Now she is well loved and valued by everyone in the barnyard. Hers is a story of a misbehaving pig redeemed and reformed! It's a story of second chances, that should encourage us all!

Blessings, Carol 

Grounded!

No, it’s not what you might think. My husband didn’t “ground” me! Someone from Radiant Life Company sent a book called Earthing by Clinton Ober, Stephen Sinatra, M.D. and Martin Zucker. The cover declares that “we humans, as all other living beings, are electrical creatures on an electrical planet, and the ground beneath us is more than something we just stand, walk, play and build on.” It asks, “Are you electron deficient? The earth itself can remedy your deficiency and improve your health, energy, and sleep.”

The book is about being grounded—really, like plug a copper ground wire into the dirt kind of thing! The author says we will be healthier, sleep better, and get rid of inflammation if we would take our shoes off and walk through the grass or hug a tree! He has the science to support his theory. After reading that the thought floated into my head, hmmm, I wonder if the Lord imbedded more in Ephesians 3:16-19 than we normally think about. St. Paul would not have known about electricity with its protons, electrons and neutrons, but he would have understood grounding from an agricultural standpoint.

¹⁶That He would grant you, according to the riches of His glory, to be strengthened with might by his Spirit in the inner man; ¹⁷That Christ may dwell in your hearts by faith; that you, being rooted and grounded in love, ¹⁸may be able to comprehend [appreciate, grasp, perceive, intuit, recognize, sense, understand] with all saints what is the breadth, and length, and depth, and height; ¹⁹And to know the love of Christ, which passes knowledge, that you might be filled with all the fullness of God.

I began to research what it means to be grounded, first what it means for plants and then what it means to be grounded electrically. Agriculturally speaking, grounding is necessary for structural support and for the purpose of sustaining the life of the plant. The roots and the soil support the structure and supply nutrients from the soil. “That you may be able to comprehend the breadth, length and depth” . . . this is what roots do! They probe and explore all those places—breadth, length and depth! The nutrients brought from the soil build the plant so that it comprehends or attains the height potential that the DNA of the plant prescribes! Grounding in Christ would mean that as our roots grow deep into Christ He will support and nurture us. He keeps us from being blown about, knocked down and run over by life. As our roots go down and out in Christ He becomes our strength, He nurtures our spirit and soul and therefore, our bodies flourish.

 

Grounding in electrical terms is a safety issue, it’s about protection. It prevents fires, burns and fatalities--destruction. We are electrical beings, filled with electrons, protons and neutrons. But we can gain and lose electrons (negative charge) and protons (positive charge). If we shuffle across the carpet we are filled up with an abundance of positive protons and then when we touch a doorknob we receive a shock as our oversupply of + protons rush out and - neutrons rush in to stabilize our charge.

I don’t know if we have the equivalent to electrons and protons in our human spirit, but we can fill our spirit, soul and mind with negativity and zap the first happy individual who has the misfortune to wish us a good day! We can fill our minds and spirits with negative images, with pictures that degrade the beauty and nobility that God intended us to exhibit. For example, pornography brings addiction which pushes for expression, which leads to molestation and then assault, which leads to prison. The addicted person discharges the oversupply of negative within upon another of God’s children, but stabilization does not occur, rather, the negative expands. In the case of discharging negative spiritual garbage, two negatives do NOT a positive make! Building a negative charge digs the hole deeper downward.

On the other hand, we can fill our minds with what is true, noble, and right, with whatever is pure, lovely, and admirable—if something is excellent or praiseworthy—we can think about such things and fill our spirit, mind and soul with God’s positive charge Philippians 4:8. Then as we interact (or collide) with the world we release a positive charge! We become filled with the fullness of God by filling our minds with thoughts of Him, His nature and attributes, and ponder and meditate on them. Then when we talk about Him with others of like mind we build the positive charge of our spirit—we rise, stand taller and walk, talk and act increasingly more like Jesus.

Grounding ourselves in Christ is a spiritual protection. And here is a news flash! Storms and winds are essential to the health of the tree! As the tree sways in the wind it creates a prying action in the soil. The swaying opens avenues for the roots to expand further. Spiritually speaking? The storms of life may be necessary for spiritual vitality! Yikes! Oy!

Back to the issue of these earthing things--if anyone has used any of these products I’d love to hear how it/they worked.